Please answer the following questions with a yes or no to see where you stand in your relationship today.
I am whole when I'm alone; being with my partner increases my happiness.
I know my partner's most important values and share them.
I tell my partner the truth, even about the little details.
I respect my partner and do not insult or speak sarcastically, especially when I'm angry.
I'm doing everything I can to contribute to the success of our relationship.
I am fully present with my partner when we make love.
I am grateful for the love I feel in this relationship; my partner lifts my spirits.
I trust my partner as much or more than anyone else in my life.
As a couple we are attractive; people seek our company.
I have listened to my partner so well that I often know what s/he is thinking.
This relationship is completely consistent with my personal integrity.
I choose to be honest, faithful, and committed to my partner.
I listen to my partner fully' I don't interrupt or contradict my partner when s/he is speaking.
When I make a mistake, I say so, and apologize for any negative consequences.
My needs for closeness and independence are balanced in this relationship.
I have communicated my personal needs around sex and intimacy, and they are understood, accepted, and being fulfilled in a way which feels good.
Our relationship heightens my personal power, passion, and vivacity.
I am careful about what I promise; I don't set my partner up for disappointment.
Your Totals: YES NO
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