Leadership
is about what you know and how you apply that
knowledge. Some people are born leaders but for the rest who aren't that lucky, here are some of the best books on leadership so you can have an arsenal of great information to build your skills upon.
Resilience is critical to success in leadership
Resilience as the one
defining skill and behavior that allows some to stand out from the
rest. In the face of adversity, some are able to pick themselves up and brush themselves off
and move on, while others are not. Denise Brosseau in her book
Ready to Be a Thought Leader: How to Increase Your Influence, Impact, and Success
Bridge the communication gap created by leadership
Most successful people have little interest in listening to those
individuals who cannot add value to a situation or topic but force
themselves into a conversation just to hear themselves speak. Good
communicators address both the what and how aspects of messaging so they
don't fall prey to becoming the smooth talker who leaves people with
the impression of form over substance. Mike Myatt in his book
Hacking Leadership: The 11 Gaps Every Business Needs to Close and the Secrets to Closing Them Quickly
Leadership is, at its core, about the mobilization of ideas
Leadership is about setting a direction. It's about creating a
vision, empowering and inspiring people to want to achieve the vision,
and enabling them to do so with energy and speed through an effective
strategy. In its most basic sense, leadership is about mobilizing a
group of people to jump into a better future. John P. Kotter in his book
Accelerate: Building Strategic Agility for a Faster-Moving World
Good leaders are highly aware of their own vulnerabilities
The role played by blindspots is to meditate between the poles of
self-confidence and self-doubt. A leader with too many blindspots can be
overconfident, even blindly arrogant, and exposed to a range of risks. Robert Bruce Shaw in his book
Leadership Blindspots: How Successful Leaders Identify and Overcome the Weaknesses That Matter
Leaders equip people for success beyond their own purview
Entrepreneurial leaders foster in people the feeling that they are personally successful--the hallmark of leadership. Derek Lidow in his book
Startup Leadership: How Savvy Entrepreneurs Turn Their Ideas Into Successful Enterprises
The role of a leader is primarily to care for others
When a leader embraces their responsibility to care for people
instead of caring for numbers, then people will follow, solve problems
and see to it that that leader's vision comes to life the right way, a
stable way and not the expedient way. Simon Sinek in his book
Leaders Eat Last: Why Some Teams Pull Together and Others Don't
Reflect and lead in the moment without just focusing on problems
Most leaders can barely breathe through the blur of activity, much
less reflect on and register the best of what is happening in the
present moment. And on the rare occasions when they do step back to
assess the situation at hand, they focus on the problems, ignoring the
opportunities. Kathryn D. Cramer in her book
Lead Positive: What Highly Effective Leaders See, Say, and Do
Trust in leadership can be distilled down to four basic elements
Trust in others (and their trust in us) depends on four elements: reliability, congruence, acceptance, and openness. Joanna Barsh and Johanne Lavoie in their book
Centered Leadership: Leading with Purpose, Clarity, and Impact
Body language trumps spoken instruction
Remember, every communication is two conversations, the spoken
content and the body language. The body language always trumps the
content when the two are in conflict. So in planning your content and
failing to think much about your emotions, which drive your body
language, you're leaving that to chance--the more important of the two
conversations. Nick Morgan in his book
Power Cues: The Subtle Science of Leading Groups, Persuading Others, and Maximizing Your Personal Impact
Analyzing success and feedback
To increase your chances of moving toward your ideal self, challenge
any self-defeating thoughts. Keep in mind your past accomplishments,
candidly assess what has stopped you from achieving goals, as well as
your personal beliefs about your abilities. Consider relevant feedback
from others about what you have achieved and what your potential is.
This helps increase your sense of hopefulness, which research has shown
is critical in imagining and realizing the ideal self. Stewart D. Friedman in his book
Leading the Life You Want: Skills for Integrating Work and Life