Success in any area
of life never happens in a complete vacuum. Often it is just as much dependent
on an individual’s will-power and intelligence as it is on their environment
and outside circumstances.
To find happiness and
success, you therefore need to pay attention and take some control over the
type of environments you are surrounding yourself in on a daily basis; even the
strongest and brightest of minds will find it difficult to achieve their goals
if they are in a completely wrong environment for them. This is because every
aspect of your external life has some influence over your internal thoughts and
behaviors, especially the people you surround yourself with on a daily basis,
and the type of places where you spend most of your time.
Time to look at the people you surround yourself with…..
The first main aspect
of our environment that influences our success is the people we surround
ourselves with on a daily basis.
For example, a recent
study published in a 2013 issue of Psychological Science found that surrounding
yourself with friends who are more self-disciplined can also help you become
more self-disciplined. This is just one of many examples of how our social
network can have an influence over our own behavior and goal-seeking.
It fits well with
other research that shows if you hang around people who are obese and
unhealthy, it’s more likely you will become obese and unhealthy. And if you
hang around with people who are lazy and don’t study for class, it’s likely
you’ll end up with similar grades as them too. More and more scientific
evidence is beginning to show that we become a reflection of the types of
people we hang out with the most. This social influence affects every area of
our lives: at home, at work, at school, at a party, or wherever.
So take a moment to
think about some of your own personal goals and values. Are there any people in
your life who are currently holding you back from achieving them? Be honest. Instead
of spending time with people who make you hate life and make you want to give
up, spend time with people who make you love life and motivate you to improve
yourself for the better.
That to me is one of
the most important characteristics in a healthy relationship. It’s also
essential to achieving success. If you have the right people in your life,
it’ll be easy to find that extra boost of support when you really need it.
Think about the places you spend your time at……
The second main
aspect of our environment that influences our success is the places we spend
most of our time at.
For example, one
important factor that has shown to increase productivity and happiness is
giving people some freedom to design their own workplace. Taking ownership over
where you spend your time allows you to choose an environment that motivates
and inspires you. A good environment for success should keep your senses
stimulated and awake while you work on your goals, while not being too
distracting.
For example, one
specific thing you could do is put plants or a fish tank in your office, gym,
or workplace to surround yourself with nature more. There have been countless
studies showing how exposing ourselves to nature can improve focus, minimize
stress, and boost cognitive ability.
Another thing you can
do is decorate your workspace with motivational posters and quotes. These can
be great resources to have around the office when you need something to lift
your mood. Find images that are visually appealing to you, with designs and
colors that make you feel good and set the right tone for you and your goals.
Often when working
for large organizations we can lose a sense of our personal identity. Your
office is usually the one place you have some freedom to express yourself, so
create a work environment that works for you – something that reflects some of
your own values and interests, and something that motivates and inspires you.
Try changing your
workspace around every few months or so to keep it fresh and interesting. On
the surface it may not seem like a big deal, but remember this is the place you
work at everyday, so it’s going to have an influence on your success and
inspiration whether you realize it or not. You might as well make it as
positive as possible.
It’s about choosing an environment that brings out the best in you……..
At the end of the
day, you can’t meet your full potential for success unless you find an
environment that brings out the very best in you. Try to become more aware of
the people and places you interact with on a daily basis. Are they encouraging
your success or discouraging it? How can you make some changes to your
environment so that it better serves you and your goals?
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